Saturday, May 30, 2020

God Bless Lefty

Lefty with Mary Fran in the early 1950s.
Dear Hearts,

May 31st is the 127th anniversary of the birth of John Jeremiah "Lefty" Sullivan: our patriarch, grandfather, great grandfather and great-great-grandfather. He was born in Chicago in 1893 and died on July 7, 1958.

Jim has actual, real-life memories of Lefty, so I'll offer his story here:

He was 5' 10" tall, about 185, and his shoulders were so wide that he just barely got through the door. Even when he was in his last year, his 65th, he was graceful as a cat. We used to go for walks around the block and talk baseball and they are among my most treasured memories.

He was the youngest of six, second brother, son of Jeremiah Barry O’Sullivan from Limerick, and Anna Meany from Clare. He had a full scholarship to play football at Notre Dame- he was a split end, today's wide receiver- but he turned it down to sign with the White Sox in about 1911. His father never forgave him. He went to the farm teams for some years until WWI broke out.

He joined the Army. He was the first generation of us born here, and the first of us to go into the American, not the Irish Republican, Army. After him, three generations of his descendants have served in that same Army. He was in a cavalry unit, and shortly after he reported to the front line, the Armistice was signed. He claimed forever after to have shown up, and as a result, the Germans got scared and quit. With a straight face. He used to say he gave them a choice. Then he'd hold up his right fist and say, "Six months in the hospital." Then he'd hold up his left fist and say, "Or sudden death."

Back home, his rookie year in the big leagues was 1919, the year of the Black Sox scandal. He was a rookie on that team and appeared four times. After that, the Sox were busted up and Lefty pitched semi-pro ball for 25 more years, sold insurance in Chicago, hustled pool in the summers to feed the family and ran for alderman. And lost.

Everybody in Chicago knew him, and when I was growing up people would ask me if I was related to John "Lefty" Sullivan. I'd say yes and they'd say he was the greatest pitcher they ever watched. The great Warren Spahn of the Milwaukee Braves said on channel 9 the day Lefty (we called him Boompa) died, "Lefty Sullivan was the best natural pitcher I ever saw. Better than me."

He had the narrow coronary arteries, "Sullivan Heart," and when he bent over to field a slow grounder or a bunt, his vision blurred, oxygen didn't get to his brain enough. The pros took advantage of this, of course. But that was the first clue. He had six heart attacks, dying in bed on 7 July, 1958, from the last one at age 65. Uncle Bob had one. Big Sully had one which killed him. And Blackie and I have had one.

All the Sullivan men really must get the tubes checked out. I officially beg all of you, again, to do that soon.

Lefty took a beating from his father, Jeremiah, in front of his oldest son, my Dad, Big Sully, because he had given an intentional walk in a ball game. The old man, Jeremiah, thought he knew what he was doing, accused Lefty of cowardice, and beat him with his shillelagh! True story! My dad, Big Sully, asked why he took it, and his dad, Lefty said,"He just doesn't understand." My father never got over that.

Grandma, Booma, Anna Conick Sullivan, his beloved and only woman, used to call him Sully. I thought that was the coolest thing I ever heard. She was stern with him, and called him Lefty sometimes when she had had one beer, and when angry, John.

I used to think that the picture on the dime was Lefty. The profile of Roosevelt looked like him. So I used to tell everybody that my grandpa was on the dime. Got some funny looks. He was such a character. He hated being left-handed, because he felt it put him out of the mainstream. He forced himself to write with his right hand.

He always wore a white shirt and a tie, shined his shoes and always had clean fingernails, was always spiffy and well-groomed, well dressed.

He was just like Blackie, and they even look much alike. The one who really looks like Lefty is Timothy Aristotle Sullivan, his grandson. It's spooky. And of course, Tim and Blackie look a lot alike, being first cousins, which, genetically, is like half-brothers.

There is a story about him in the confessional, just after Pope John XXIII let us drink water after midnight before going to communion in the morning. One Saturday night, late, Lefty got up and drank a whole pitcher of ice water that he used to keep in the fridge. Then he went to communion at Mass the next morning. Then later in the week, he went to confession and confessed that transgression. The priest said, "But, John, it's ok to drink water before communion now." And Lefty said, "Yeah, but I shouldn't have been such a God damned pig about it."

The priest laughed aloud in the confessional, and then got Lefty's permission to tell that story.

When he died, his wake was at Duffy's, the famous Chicago south side Irish funeral parlor. It was a strange night, because there was Lefty in one room, in his coffin, surrounded three deep with people crying, and then in the next room people were drinking and laughing and singing, and then people went back and forth between these rooms and between these activities. Crying, laughing, praying, drinking, there was plenty of smooching and feeling going on, too. It was a real slice of life. I later came to learn that it was just an Irish wake.

My Dad did what all Irish American fathers did- he brought all his children right to the coffin and we came in direct contact with death. My Dad was teary-eyed, and kissed his father. I went up to the coffin to kiss him goodbye, in the Irish tradition, right smack on the lips. And then it hit me- he was really gone. He wasn't getting up. I thought I'd never see him again.

I was 10- what did I know? But the grief overwhelmed me and I fled into the cloak room where there was a line of chairs with raincoats draped over them, forming a tunnel. I crawled into the tunnel. I cried my heart out and felt like I was going to die of grief. I had never had an inkling of death before.

After a bit, a big hand comes in there and pulls me out and holds me in his arms- Uncle Bob. He explained everything to me, and how Lefty lives and always will, and how we all love each other, so none of us can actually ever die. He told me, Jesus Christ, the Son of the Living God, never died. So we don't really die either. And love never, never dies, he told me. I have found it to be true.

Uncle Bob saved me that night, and when Uncle Bob died and I was crying my eyes out in the aisle of St. Gregory's, another John Sullivan, Seamus the Younger's oldest son, my beloved cousin John Robert, 11 at the time, puts his little arms around me and comforts me, at the death of his grandpa. Full circle. The love of the family.

I think Lefty has formed a special bond with John Davis, because he has appeared to John twice in dreams, and delivered to John a message which served John and his loved ones well. And they are both Celtic John's.

Lefty was our patriarch. I love and miss him so. He and I used to walk around the block together, and he played roll the ball with us, and, later, catch, and once in a while he'd throw his heater. That was something- a fastball from Lefty Sullivan of the Chicago White Sox, our grandpa. And John Davis and I took batting practice from him in one of those dreams.

Good night, precious, dear hearts. Good night, Boompa. Thanks for everything.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love,
Seamus the Older

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Happy Birthday, Maureen!

Dear Hearts,

May 29th is the birthday of Maureen Sullivan: wife of Tim; mother of Brynn and Andrew; sister, aunt, daughter, cousin and friend to so many more. While another year has passed, Maureen does not seem to age--she is as beautiful as ever!

One of the best thing's about Mo is that beauty is backed up with a super sharp wit, intelligence and an abiding faith that continues to amaze me. Mo has been challenged physically for years and has chosen to see goodness in her suffering. Whether we know it or not, we all benefit from Maureen's indomitable prayer life. Thank you, Mo.

Her strength has not given way, though. This woman, born and raised in Mahwah, NJ, will give anyone a run for their money in a debate. She is a grad of the University of Dallas and a student of the great philosophical minds of the Church. It's hilarious to hear her banter with some of the men in her family, and amazing to see how much she loves her dogs. She is glad to be living in So. Cal., just a stone's throw from the beach.

Happy birthday, Mo, and may you have 79 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Saturday, May 23, 2020

Happy Birthday, Mia!

Dear Hearts,

My apologies for posting this late:

May 21st is the birthday of Mia Rose Sullivan: daughter of Mike and Shelly; sister of Jake, Seamus, Augustine, Sofia, Penelope and Max; granddaughter of Darlene; niece, cousin and friends to scores more lucky folks.

Mia is in high school now, attending St. Mary with a few of her cousins. She is a good big sister to Sofie and Nellie and keeps her brothers in line, I'm sure. She is smart, kind and a pleasure to be around.

Happy Birthday, sweet Mia, and may you have 110 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Maggie!

Dear Hearts,

My apologies for this late posting:

May 21st is the birthday of Margaret Frances Sullivan: daughter of John and Nancy; sister of Michael and Matthew; auntie of Evangeline and Violet; niece, cousin and friends of dozens more. Maggie is one of the sweetest and most humble women I know and a wonderful blend of her mom and dad.

Andy and I were so grateful to have a chance to visit with Maggie last fall in NYC. Her schedule was challenging with three jobs to juggle, but Columbus Day afforded her a bit of respite and we shared some time over breakfast in lower Manhattan.

Maggie's humor brings light to every conversation, and her creativity fascinates the mind. All this wrapped up in such a beautiful young woman with a kind and loving heart.

Happy birthday, Maggie, and may you have 89 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Sunday, May 17, 2020

Happy Birthday, Candace!

Dear Hearts,

May 18th is the birthday of Candace Gatuso Lore, wife of Joseph Lore, mother of two beautiful girls, and dear friend of Sarah Cassaro Sullivan. Candace is the tallest of Sarah's bridesmaids.

She was born in New Orleans, the sixth of 10 children and moved to Chicago in 2003 with Joseph for a change of scenery. Candace works as an RN full time at St. Mary and Elizabeth Medical Center as a cardiac/telemetry nurse and as a registry nurse at Norwegian American. She met Sarah while working together at the Smokedaddy in 2007...and Miles through Sarah.

When Candace is in the group, it's down home--her family is like ours--and she is the warmest and most comfortable type of person there is.

Happy Birthday, Candace, and may you have 86 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love,
Papa Sully & Patty

Saturday, May 16, 2020

Happy Birthday, Claire!

Dear Hearts,

May 16th is the birthday of Claire Elizabeth Clevenger, daughter of Hal and Mercy Clevenger; sister of Molly; granddaughter of Helen and John Whalen; great-granddaughter of Boom Boom and Boompa; niece, cousin and friend to scores of lucky folks.

Claire lives in Big Sky, Montana and is a living, breathing legacy of so many who came before her. Her creativity, adventurous pursuits, wonderful humor and strong independence remind us all of her sister, mom, aunts and grandmothers. Working in the restaurant industry, I'm guessing things are challenging for Claire today. She is a talented bartender and server who creates amazing dishes at home too.

Happy Birthday, Claire, and may you have 92 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Happy Birthday, Mary Ella!

I couldn't resist including this photo of
Mary Ella and her mama, even though it's 11 years old!
Dear Hearts,

May 14th is the birthday of Mary Ella Lewis, daughter of Paul and Margaret Lewis; sister of PJ, Robert, William and Timothy: niece, cousin and friend to many more. She is one of four of our women with Ella in her name. This group includes her Auntie Ella (who is Darlene Ella); her first cousin Ella Marie (Bobby’s daughter); her second cousin Frances Ella (Jim's daughter); and herself.

This Ella is the proverbial Irish beauty--as lovely as her mama, and as good as her daddy. She has grown up to be a strong yet quiet young woman who shows great humor and grace in everyday life.

Happy Birthday, Mary Ella, and may you have 108 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Saturday, May 9, 2020

God Bless June

Dear Hearts,

May 10th is the 96th anniversary of June Doe Cusick's birth. She was born in Illinois on May 10, 1924, and died at age 41 in 1965. She was the wife of Edgar Allen "Bud" Cusick, and mother of Kathy, Linda, Debbie and Brian, and most importantly to us, Elizabeth Ann "Bitsy" Cusick Sullivan, who looks just like her.

June was famously witty and vivacious, she was crazy about Bud, and was drop-dead gorgeous. Bitsy misses her all the time. I wish I had known her.

June succumbed to cancer when Bitsy was 19. So Bitsy went a long time without a mother, and then had Mom for 17 years, and she and Mom were good friends. I can't help but think that Mom and June would have also been good friends.

June lives in memory, and in the faces of her children, and grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Thank you, June, for Bitsy, and please watch over us all.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Friday, May 8, 2020

Happy Birthday, Kat!

Dear Hearts,

May 9th is the birthday of Kathleen Lawrence, wife of Jim's West Point classmate and brother, Kerry Lawrence, Esq.

Kat is more than just a classmate's wife. She has served the Academy and the Nation for over a decade as a mentor at the class-sponsored National Conference on Ethics in America at West Point every year. She is a clinical psychotherapist who provides business consulting, coaching, mediation services, couple, child and family therapy and parent coaching through her private practice in Washington.

Jim offers this:

"Kat helps suffering humanity every day and is one of the most compassionate and empathetic and gentle souls I have ever met. She loves my classmate Kerry, who is as big a knucklehead as all the Brothers, despite his many accomplishments (he is our class's James Madison, having single-handedly written the class constitution), with all her big heart. Though hit with a debilitating condition in her youth, she fights it and succeeds on a day-to-day basis with remarkable courage and composure."

Jim discovered something astonishing about our familial connection with Kat:

"Anne and Kat and Bitsy are great friends, and when I see them together, I am struck by how much they are so like the groups of Irish women we grew up with--their speech and mannerisms and laughter. Then I noticed that Kat reminds me startlingly of Boom Boom and when I asked questions, it turns out she is from Clare! And her mother and female relatives are Moloneys, Fitzgeralds, Sheehans and McNamaras! Boom Boom was a Sheehan, and her mother was a Moloney, and her mother was a Fitzgerald, and her mother was a MacNamara! And they are all from Clare! Got to be the same gene pool."

So Happy Birthday, Kathleen, dear and long-time friend, and may you have 58 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty & Jim

Tuesday, May 5, 2020

God Bless Mary Claire

Dear Hearts,

On May 6th, 2011 Mary Claire Rita Wiley Sullivan passed into the arms of God and joined those of our clan who have gone before. She was the daughter of Boom Boom and Boompa; sister of Helen; wife of Big Sully, sister-in-law of John, Bob, Darlene, Sister Nan and Sister Margaret; mother of Jim, Mary Fran, John, Mike, Matt, Anne, Jerry, Margy and Patty; mother-in-law, grandmother; great-grandmother; aunt; cousin and friend of hundreds more.

She was a woman of terrific wit, faith, humor, intelligence and love. Her great gift was always to love and to be loved. Indeed, one of her favorite songs was "Love Makes the World Go 'Round."

Born in Chicago on August 4, 1926, Mary Claire danced on the Irish radio show in Chicago as a young girl, and could do the "shtep" and the Blackbird until her little frame wouldn't support her. Men loved to dance with her but she had only one man her entire life and she is with Big Sully now.

She was a pre-med student at Marquette in 1946 who gave up a career in medicine to marry a returning bomber pilot, thrice-wounded, newly released from a POW compound. He was head over heels in love with her and she with him. Now she rests with him in formation, in the same grave, with the others of the 8th Air Force at the National Cemetery at March Air Force Base in Riverside, CA.

We miss you and love you, Mom. Please continue to watch over all of us down here. Below is Mom's eulogy compiled and written by Jim.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty & Jim



Dear Hearts,

We gather to say farewell to Mary Claire Rita Wiley Sullivan, born 4 August 1926 in Chicago, and died 6 May 2011 in Orange, California. She lived for 30,956 days. She was the child of a pure Pole, Boompa, and a pure Gael, Boom Boom, and she looked Spanish, with her fair complexion and dark black hair and hazel eyes.

She was part Wilcoszewski and part Sheehan; part Zinn and part Maloney; part Gorczynski and Grabska and Nowierska; part Corbett and Fitzgerald and McNamara. But what she really was, was pure Sullivan.

She was astonishingly beautiful. She had many important qualities that stood out very strong in her life, every day. First, she had maybe the most precious attribute among humans. She was truly innocent, in the same way that the good people are innocent. She saw no problem with reaching all the way out there, as far as you could go. She was an idealist. She passed this to us, and it affected everything else about her.

Secondly, she did not really count cost, hardly ever, hardly about anything. And she did not really count price; in fact she was largely unconcerned about most things, most of the time. But she really cared, deeply and strongly, about value. This showed up in many little ways. For instance, she could make a little odd tidbit of carefully prepared and uniquely combined food so that the one little bite was a feast- we all experienced that, usually with Mom, one-on-one, by ourselves with her in the kitchen at some odd hour.

Or her perpetual mantra about the most important thing is to love and to be loved, and that meant pull for the underdog, the “left-out” kid, the poor or impaired or unpopular one. Her heart went out to that segment of the world and she told us to put our hearts out there too, and we did- we learned that from her. John’s picture and memory of Mom is that she was always concerning herself with the well-being and comfort of others.

Gary said- and he was clear that he was speaking for both himself and Mary Fran- “The lesson for both of us, Mary Fran and me, was that Mary Claire taught us how not to judge. She never judged anyone. And she taught this by example and not by word. We talked about it for years. It affected our lives, and does to this day.”

Matt said, “I think the most outstanding quality of our mother was her enormous personal generosity. As a child and growing into manhood it was always a given that my mother would at any time happily lay her life down for me.” We have all experienced that generosity from her, over and over.

She was ferociously brave- she would have been a fearsome warrior, except that she couldn’t hurt a fly- but her valor was astounding. In the early sixties, before ATM’s, Dad was stuck at a steel mill in Alabama and wouldn’t be home for a few days- Christmas Eve- and we were short of cash, but needed a Christmas tree set up before Christmas Eve. So Mom planned a caper. She got her three oldest sons and gave us a mission briefing. It was a well-planned and co-ordinated maneuver, and we stole a Christmas tree right off the lot. There was a diversion, Mom drove the getaway car, and the three of us hoisted the tree and held it on the car roof as we sped away down the alley. Of course, Mom had made it very clear that this was only a temporary theft, and that we would go in and pay for it as soon as Dad got home, and that you really shouldn’t steal.

She went in and paid up in two days, explaining to the owner of the lot. He laughed and said that the story was worth it. He should never have told Mom that. Because we then had to steal a tree every year thereafter, and later, go in and explain ourselves. It got so that the owner just expected it and planned on it, and had a good laugh with Mom. Years later I ran into the owner’s son and he told me how much his father liked that annual event and looked forward to it. He would say, “Look, there’s Mrs. Sullivan and her crew- gonna pull a job.” Then he’d laugh.

She had a knack for that stuff.

Margy asked me to say this: “If you can possibly add a couple things that we younger ones witnessed a lot - she was like the pied piper to children - she would volunteer in my classroom and my students would spontaneously cheer when she arrived. Right in the middle of a lesson! Her green thumb was also legendary - people in the neighborhood in Upland would bring her their plants to be "cured" and she always delivered. She was a thoughtful observer of any living thing that was faltering - whether that was a child with the chicken pox or a geranium that needed pruning. Lastly, as a grandmother she saw ONLY the goodness in her grandchildren - and what a gift it was for those grandchildren to have that person in their life that held this wonderful vision of them even when they were naughty. :)”

Of course, Dad was right in there with her, and were they ever a pair. And was that ever a love affair. She made her choice as a pre-med student to forego her career in medicine and to marry the newly-returned, thrice-wounded combat bomber pilot just liberated from a POW compound, and she always said she never regretted it for a moment.

And then there was her insistence on value in diction and grammar and gentility, especially to those less fortunate. To this day I can never speak disrespectfully to a waiter, nor can my children, by that example. And that was straight from Mom. But she would say “It doesn’t cost a penny to speak properly and correctly.”

She also sought value, for all of us, in the realm of character. Jerry remembers “Mom taught me how to do the right thing even when it was unconventional, unpopular or uncomfortable.” Remember “The smallest bowl of pudding gets the highest place in heaven.”?

Of course, that may have been more a management function at the time. I recall her waking me because I had to meet some classmates in the library on Saturday morning in winter to finish a class project due Monday, in 6th grade. I begged her to let me sleep in and she said these words, which I cannot forget: “OK, you do what you want, but you will look back on this moment as a milestone in the forming of your character, one way or the other.” Yikes. I rolled out. She inspired me and still does, with that simple utterance.

Her third attribute of import was her incredible sophistication. She was intellectually sophisticated, if you could ever get her to be serious. And then, she would veer off into the comedic side of most discussions, I think because she just couldn’t help it. Her humor was pretty sophisticated too. Laughter was a big part of our house. As Mike wrote. “… laughter, laughter, laughter…”

Then there was her physical sophistication, or maybe that is better said as “toughness.” She was always a little woman in weight, although fairly tall in her prime, 5’ 6 or more, but I remember how formidable her 120 pounds was. She could pack a fair wallop, and she had 9 consecutive healthy babies without a miss. Disgusting messes and disgusting situations never seemed to bother her too much, either.

Anne says, “And Willis remembers that she followed him up his little boy shortcut from the Mediterranean Sea to our house in Sardinia, through people's yards and over garden walls--and she was seventy years old at the time.” She was a tough one.

Then there was her cultural sophistication. She could sing like a bird, and danced wonderfully, and went right along with Dad in some of his hoe-downs, where he would get wound up on the dance floor and dance like a kangaroo, and she was right there with him; but also she could do the ancient Irish “shtep” and the Blackbird and the Stack of Barley. She and her sister Helen were famous for dancing on the radio, on “The Irish Hour” listened to by the homesick Irish from the West of Ireland. The program would put the microphone down at the floor level so the girls’ feet could be heard. In Boom Boom’s neighborhood, all the old Irish guys loved to dance with Mom, but she only ever had eyes for the one Big Sully, father of her children, and mate for life.

She played the piano and she understood music, its nuance and spirituality. I remember her imparting some of that to me. Anne also said, “Could you please mention that Mom was the best piano player I ever knew? That she could convey emotion through piano keys? She could make music bounce, roll, or flow? And Claire mentioned today that Mom moved like everything was a dance, and that Mom could play one song that "tickled.”

And languages. She spoke French and German and some Gaelic, and taught us our prayers in those languages. The Hail Mary in German, the Sign of the Cross and the Prayer to the Holy Spirit in French. My son Amos once gave thanks for the depth of culture he was exposed to in all the branches of his family, and there was a big dose of it straight from Mom.

Patty sums it up: “I believe mom was a true teacher. Probably why we have so many in the family. I am amazed that she continued to teach me profound lessons up until her last breath."

The fourth and maybe most telling point about Mary Claire is what people who are not her children say about her. Look at our spouses. They all have a special relationship with her, each one.

Bitsy and Gary and Nancy and Joan and Malachy, although he didn’t get too much time with her, and Lorna and Brian and Big Andy. And they have deep and abiding love and affection for her, well past what is usual for a son-in law or daughter-in-law. Bitsy lost her Mom at 19 and when she first met Mom she said to me, “I love her. I’m grabbing her.”

Patty’s godfather, Alan Stachura, “Stach,” told me last week that “She was the very best Mom I ever saw. She made me think of the Blessed Mother.” I know Mom heard that and Stach got a lot of points.

It is true. She was the best mother we could ever have had. We love you Mom. You did your work so very well.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the Living God, have mercy on us sinners, and please hold Mary Claire, who has loved you since her first day, in your Big Hand and close to Your Sacred Heart.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

We believe Mom goes to stand in the line of Irish mothers, of which she is a member, just as her great grandmother, the famed midwife of the Corca Baiscinn, Honore Corbett Sheehan, stood with her and Margy, mystically, beyond time and space, when they were injured by an accident and shocked, and Lizzie’s life was at risk. That beloved line of beloved women has Mom now, and she is safe among them and held in highest regard.

And here is the old song with the words that Mom’s great-grandmother, Mary Fitzgerald Moloney, sang to Mom’s grandmother, Kate Moloney Sheehan, who sang them to Mom’s mother Mary Frances Sheehan Wiley, who sang them to Mom and to Mom’s daughter, Mary Frances Sullivan Merwin, the ancient Irish song Suil Aruin:

“Suil, suil suil aroon,

Suil go suchir agus suil go cuin,

Suil go dun d’orais, agus eilig luim,

S’go vellaigh mavourneen slan.



Come, come, come my love,

Come softly and swiftly,

Come to the door and away we’ll flee,

And safe, for aye, my darling be.”

And now we say to Mom:

“De is Moire guitch, agus slan a bhaile, mathair mo mhurnin.”



“God and Mary with you, safe home, Darling Mom.”

Sunday, May 3, 2020

Happy Birthday, Mickey!

Dear Hearts,

May 4th is the birthday of Donald Nicholas Michael "Mick" Sullivan, M. D., son of Jim and Nancy; stepson of Bitsy; brother of Jim III, Amos, Miles, and Franny; husband of Mary; father of Oscar, Beatrice and Lucille; nephew, cousin and friend of many more. My favorite memory of Mickey is his tiny scratchy voice when he was a toddler.

Like so many of our family members, Mick's talents cross from right-brain to left-brain abilities with ease. In his young life he succeeded in football, hockey, soccer, swimming, guitar, english and drama. After receiving his BA at DePauw, he served as a U.S. Army Ranger. His last jump from an airplane didn't go as smoothly as anyone would want--I believe he cracked a vertebrae in his neck!

After his medical discharge, Mick's path became clear: medical school. On to Southern Illinois University for clinical training and microsurgery, then residency in orthopedic surgery, and a fellowship in adult joint reconstruction at University of Chicago. Today, Mick is a partner at Decatur Orthopedic Center, specializing in joint replacement procedures: total, complex, revision; as well as shoulder replacement, trauma and joint preservation.

Not only does Mick have a Covid-19 birthday, he's also working in and enduring the harsh reality of this pandemic. Last I heard, he was working in surgery and coming home to live in an RV in his own driveway--quarantined from his family. They are all finding creative ways to relate through windows, technology and at distances, but I'm confident he can't wait to gather his wife and kids up in a big family hug soon. 

Happy Birthday, Mick, and may you have 77 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Amanda!

Dear Hearts,

April 3rd is the birthday of Amanda Leann Glick, daughter of Jerry and Diana; sister of Kevin; wife of Daniel; niece, cousin and friend to scores more. During this pandemic she has become a MASTER sourdough bread maker.

Amanda is truly one of the sweetest women I've ever known. Sweet, yet strong in so many ways. After training and testing for a license in pilates and gyrotonic instruction, Amanda opened and ran her own studio, taking on clients for private lessons as well as groups. She is also an expert horsewoman, terrific cook and loyal friend.

As the wife of a firefighter, she is self sufficient and incredibly supportive of Daniel. It's been particularly challenging these past few months as Daniel took a new job with LA County Fire just as Covid-19 swept across the globe. While Daniel has been quarantined with his fellow trainees in a hotel, Amanda has been busy nurturing their tiny baby who is due to make his appearance in July. She cannot wait to meet little Holden!

Happy birthday, Amanda, and may you have 94 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Friday, May 1, 2020

Happy Birthday, Jeremiah!

Dear Hearts,

May 2nd is the birthday of Jeremiah Mitchel Sullivan, son of Bobby and Nicole; brother of Ella, Thomas and Patrick; nephew, cousin and friend to many, many more. Jeremiah carries the name of our ancestor, Jeremiah O'Sullivan (Lefty's dad), who was the first of our Y-chromosome to reach these shores in about 1868.

Miah has grown up on us! It seems like just last year we saw him under the Friday night lights playing football for St. Mary's HS in Phoenix. In the blink of an eye he began his studies at the University of Dallas, where he played rugby, served as the team's social chair, spent a semester studying in Rome, volunteered for Americans for Prosperity, and graduated cum laude in the spring of 2019. 

Today, Jeremiah works in Washington D.C. as an administrative officer and database coordinator at the Becket Fund for Religious Liberty. The non-profit's mission states that Becket exists to defend the free exercise of all faiths, from Anglican to Zoroastrian, and that is it the only law firm that defends all religious beliefs. I think Becket is lucky to have Jeremiah and Miah has found a great start to his career!

Happy birthday, Miah, and may you have 101 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty