Thursday, July 27, 2023

Happy Birthday, Dale!

Dear Hearts,

July 28th is the birthday of Dale Zylstra: husband of Lori; father of four; grandfather; friend and associate to many, many more lucky folks. Dale is a long-time buddy and comrade-in-arms of Seamus the Older.

As the owner of Providence Electric in Lansing, IL, he has been providing jobs, making payroll, sometimes going without pay himself, and fighting the good fight for over 40 years in the Chicago electrical contracting world. All the while, never losing his sense of social justice and goodwill.

Today he serves as the Pastor at Christ Lutheran Church in Hammond, Indiana, having been ordained in January 2021. This is an active faith community that succeeded in maintaining services via YouTube throughout the pandemic, including Dale's ordination ceremony!

Jim's describes him as a keen philosopher who is conservative of ethic and liberal of compassion--quite a mix.

So, Happy Birthday, Dale, and may you have 54 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Monday, July 24, 2023

Happy Birthday, Liam!

Dear Hearts,

July 25th is the birthday of Liam Robert Sullivan: son of Paul and Stephanie; brother of Hannah, Jack, Emma, Callum and Ewan; grandson of Bob, Darlene, Robbie and Jill; nephew, cousin and friend to many more lucky folks. Liam has the uncanny ability to sleep soundly in just about any environment--including the kitchen table and the roof of his house.
That's Liam, head, shoulders, waist and butt
above the competition!

He is going into his senior year in high school and continues to stand out not only in the classroom, but also in two sports--varsity football and varsity volleyball. In fact, in a recent spring football game, he used his vertical leaping skills to make an unbelievable catch. 

In the more natural setting, Liam loves life outdoors--fishing, camping, hunting and hiking. He is often with his dad and brothers exploring new places and bringing home fresh meat to his vegan mom.😂 Indeed, his is a multi-talented young man--excelling in whatever endeavor he faces and showing his creative side through hair styles. 

Happy Birthday, Liam, and may you have 109 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Anticipation of 2008.

God bless us and keep us and save us from harm.

Love, Patty

Friday, July 21, 2023

Happy Birthday, Franny!

Dear Hearts,
Franny recently visited her Uncle Matt and 
cousins Henry and Georgia in San Diego.


July 22nd is the birthday of Frances Ella Pike McLoughlin Nau Anne Sullivan: daughter of Seamus the Older and Nancy; sister of Jim, Mick, Amos and Miles; Auntie of Oscar, Beatrice, Georgia, Maeve, James Patrick IV, Silas, Marcos, Roman and Carmen; niece, cousin and friend of many, many more lucky folks.

Franny is force of kindness and happiness, no matter what is happening in her life. Her bright eyes and happy smile bring a positive vibe to everyone and every place. She lives in NW Indiana, working as an RN and continuing beautiful friendships with her coworkers. Her travels often seem to take her toward water--visiting friends on Anna Maria Island, stopping by the shores of Lake Michigan, or taking time to visit family on the West Coast. No matter where she lands, Franny appreciates the natural beauty around her--sunsets, wildlife, seascapes and more.

I agree with her dad that Franny is as beautiful as the poem here wrote for her below. Also included are a poem below by Emma Lazarus about the Statue of Liberty, because it is Emma's birthday, too, and another poem Jim wrote to follow Emma's, and in imitation of her, after 9/11.

Happy birthday, Franny, and may you have 87 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty


MY LITTLE GIRL FRAN, FROM DAD

I have but one daughter, the last of the five.
She’s filled me with joy since her birth.
Because of this child I know something of God,
And suspect why He made the sweet earth.

No mean unfair coaches,
No high awards earned,
No rumpus of life ever mars,
The dignified courage,
The love in your soul,
That cheers like the light from the stars.

My Francie, my heartbeat, my Precious Caileen,
My flower with eyes of deep blue,
I watch how you live and I hope to behave
As splendidly, Sweet Girl, as you.



THE NEW COLOSSUS

Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame,
With conquering limbs astride from land to land;
Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand
A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame
Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name
Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand
Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command
The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame.

``Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!" cries she
With silent lips. ``Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me.
I lift my lamp beside the golden door."

--Emma Lazarus, 1883


THE BEAUTIFUL OLD LADY

She stands there still with torch and promise high.
An immigrant herself- her nation: all.
The soldier coming home can scarce recall
A vision dearer to his yearning eye.
And strangers, come to live, who stay to die,
Are fused to country when the towers fall,
And lose their ancient race, and then are All-
American, and nothing puts that by.

She’ll take in lonely, poor and lost ones still.
But now her silence resonates with more:
“Take courage, children, let your valor fill
Your hearts, as it has always done before.
And hold, from many into one, until
We once again make safe our Golden Door*.”

*With gratitude to Emma Lazarus,
James Patrick Sullivan, Jr.

Happy Birthday, Joe!

 Dear Hearts,

July 22nd is the birthday of Joseph Benedict Merwin: son of Mary Fran and Gary; brother of Kate, Luke and Maggie; father of Elianah; uncle to Ava, Henry, Francesca and Inez; nephew, cousin and friend to scores more folks.

In his work in the construction industry, Joe has always shown not only an impressive work ethic, but also a creative eye for design. Today, he is the owner of Magellan Construction Services, a full-service custom builder. Joe works all aspects of the business--from producing proposals and bids to driving nails into wood--and delivering top-quality builds to his clients. He also works as an incredible project planner, with terrific organization and resourcefulness.

To listen to him speak and spend time with him is a pleasure. Joe is smart and articulate and has a wonderful sense of humor. These days he's taking care of himself physically, emotionally and spiritually and remains a very proud dad to his sweet Eli.

Happy Birthday, Joe, and may you have 76 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and keep us and save us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Caroline!

Dear Hearts,

July 21st is the birthday of Caroline Olivia Huffman: daughter of Ryan and Kate; sister of Grace and June; granddaughter of Mike and Joan and Mike and Susan; niece, cousin and friend to lots more people. She goes by many nicknames--Caro, Liney, Sweet Caroline, etc.

In what seems to be a time lapse, Caroline has completed third grade! And what's cool is that at her school she runs into her two sisters, her mama, two cousins, an auntie and oftentimes a great auntie on a daily basis. Outside of school, Caroline's extra-curricular activities keep her happy and busy--especially musical theater and swimming at the local pool. As a big sis, she is sweet and stern, compassionate and competitive and becoming wiser than her years.

Happy Birthday, Sweet Caroline, and may you have 116 more healthy ones, by your grandma's own Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Thursday, July 20, 2023

Happy Birthday, Jennifer!

Dear Hearts,

July 21st is the birthday of Jennifer Whaley: beloved of Jeff Everett and dear friend of Seamus the Older and his family. Jim describes her as the "frosting on the cake--not only beautiful, but funny and smart and loyal." Jennifer and Jeff are very special to Jim. Indeed, they call him Pops and he calls them Kids.

Jennifer is the owner of Fetch Portraits, a successful pet photography business in Chicago, fulfilling a dream she has held since she was a little girl. She also created Pose A Pet, an app that helps folks capture great photos of their pets.

But's her love of photographing animals is not just a paycheck--Jennifer continues to do wonderful things on behalf of animals in order to see they land in loving homes. She has helped raise over $50,000 for Animal Rescue! See her website here.

Happy Birthday, Jennifer, and may you have 74 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and keep us and save us from harm.

Love, Patty

Tuesday, July 18, 2023

Happy Birthday, Georgia!

Dear Hearts,

Georgia, left, celebrates with John B.,
Brynn and Tim, Margaret and Brian, and Patty.
July 19th is the birthday of Georgia Ann Sullivan: daughter of Matt and Lisa, sister of Matty and Henry; niece, cousin and friend to many more. Since the day she was born, Georgia has been a gentle force of kindness in our lives.

Georgia is a successful independent young women with a beautiful and compassionate outlook on life. She and Henry share a beautiful casita in La Jolla and are having fun exploring that area very much. She's working in the restaurant biz and enjoying a vibrant social life. She has an amazing connection with children, gaining their trust and comfort in a matter of a few minutes. Indeed, Georgia is as comfortable travelling to a far-off land as staying home and playing with a three-year-old cousin.

Happy Birthday, Georgia, and may you have 100 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Monday, July 17, 2023

Happy Birthday, Thomas!

Dear Hearts,

July 18th is the birthday of Thomas Gerard Sullivan: son of Jim and Erin; brother of John, Annie, Kathleen, Peter, Maggie, Joseph, Brigid, Seamus and Patrick; uncle, cousin, nephew, teammate and friend to scores more lucky folks. Thomas is the fourth oldest in his family of ten.

Thomas has completed his third year at Christendom College in Virginia. His studies in political science are going very well as as is his work on the school's baseball team. As a left-handed pitcher and outfielder this past spring, Thomas tore it up at the plate with a .377 batting average, with four home runs, 22 RBIs and 12 stolen bases. Clearly, the man has the Sullivan baseball gene.

Happy birthday, Thomas, and may you have 103 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, John!

Dear Hearts,

July 18th is the birthday of John Sullivan Bornhop: son of Andy and Patty; brother of Andrew and Thomas; husband of Misty; nephew, cousin, coach, teammate and friend to many more folks. John is one of ten men in our family's last few generations who was given the name that means "God is Gracious."

The most important development in the past year is that John is now married to his beautiful bride Misty! The two of them, and many of you Dear Hearts, endured the rainiest day in So. Cal. for the event, not to mention the muddiest reception ever! Six months in and these two are still living in wedded bliss.

John just finished his fifth year teaching high school English and still loves introducing his students to many of the classics in literature, like "Of Mice & Men," "Frankenstein" and "The Scarlet Letter." He uses song lyrics everyday to encourage teenagers to think more deeply and consider words more thoughtfully.

Having joined a group of teachers who chaperone students on trips abroad, John ventured to Europe recently and has plans to take Misty on a future trip to Japan. National Parks are some of his favorite destinations and the two of them will check a few more off their bucket list this summer as the tour through the west next month.

Music, travel, cooking, golf, reading, fishing and camping--John is up for whatever activity might present itself. He is loyal, faithful, kind, compassionate, funny, smart and loving and we are proud and grateful to call him our son.

Happy birthday, John, and may you have 95 more healthy ones, respectively, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty/Mom

Friday, July 14, 2023

Happy Birthday, Paul!

Dear Hearts,

July 15th is the birthday of Paul Joseph Lewis Sr.: husband of Margaret; father of Mary Ella, PJ Jr., Robert, William and Timothy; brother, uncle, cousin, teammate and friend to many more folks.

He was a scholar athlete at the University of Notre Dame, earning two BAs (Business Administration and Management Information Systems) while competing in a wide variety of Track & Field events--mid- and long-distance running, discus, javelin, steeplechase and more.

Paul has always been physically active, along with his beautiful bride and children, Paul's size and strength is considerable, but he is gentle, kind and loving. He always makes a person feel welcome.

Today, Paul works as Operations Manager and, together with his wife Margaret, is raising five terrific kids. He is as good and gentle as he is big and strong, and Uncle Bob saw that in him the first time he saw Paul.

So, Happy Birthday, PJ, and may you have 80 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Thursday, July 13, 2023

God Bless John

Dear Hearts,

One year ago today on July 14, 2022, one of the finest men we all know passed away. John Vincent Andrew Sullivan, born January 8, 1952, died after a year and a half bout with melanoma.

In all his roles in life--son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, cousin, nephew, friend, coworker, serviceman, lawyer, parliamentarian, policy maker--he was kind and compassionate. It is still difficult to find the words to honor him and his life. We continue to pray for and support Nancy, Mike, Lindsay, Matt, Maggie, Evangeline, Violet and Brandon and hope to gather for his funeral/burial at Arlington National Cemetery in the coming months.

He is at peace and certainly watching over us. God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, John!

Dear Hearts,

July 13th is the birthday of John Larkin Davis: husband of Beverly Diamond Davis; father of Ashley, Brianna and Caitlin; teammate and friend to many more. John is a long-time friend of Seamus the Older's and Whitey's, and as such, one of our Dear Hearts.

John is an 8th generation American whose ancestor, Jesse Larkin, fought in the Revolutionary War. Jesse's grandson, Britain Larkin, fought in the Civil War, and his brother George fought for the Confederacy in the 22nd Texas Calvary. John's father, Ben Larkin fought in Burma in the Army Engineers during WWII and worked in the coal mines of East Tennessee.

Born in Oliver Springs Tennessee, John and his family moved to Northwest Indiana after the coal mines shut down. His dad loaded them into the car and announced that when he returned from Asia after WWII, he was on a train that went thru NW Indiana and saw the steel mills. He said that if a man couldn't get a job there, he couldn't get a job anywhere. "We drove 25 hours to Gary, Indiana and went straight to the mill. He was told to report to work the next day," John recalls.

After graduation from East Gary High School, where he excelled in baseball and was voted most musical in his class, John was offered a music scholarship to Indiana University to play the trumpet. Instead he chose to major in engineering at Purdue, where his studies were interrupted for a stint with the Marine Corps. John eventually graduated with honors from the University of Houston and received a graduate degree from National-Louis University in Evanston. A fun bit of John Davis trivia: He earned his pilot's license before getting a driver's license!

From Jim:
"He has stuck up for the defenseless for as long as I've known him. Like Uncle Bob and Big Sully. In fact, he canceled his own salary for awhile to avoid laying off any of his employees. He is a great example to me and all his associates. Auntie Nan thought very highly of him.

"He is close friends with Whitey, another warrior a lot like him, and if I didn't know John so well, the fact that he and Whitey are friends would be good enough for me.

"John called me seven years ago around this time and told me an astonishing tale that happened to him. I think that John must be related to us, and I know there is some kind of mystical affinity among him and John Jeremiah "Lefty" Sullivan and Dr. John Ullmen, because John Davis called me several years ago on John Ullmen's birthday, 24 June, and told me of a dream in which Lefty inspired him to help coach the girls to a championship victory in the baseball state finals. I included this tale in John Ullmen's birthday greeting family-gram last year. In that first dream, Lefty invited John to hit, maybe symbolically telling him to keep swinging and inspire the girls, but John awoke before he could hit.

"Then, years ago, again on John Ullmen's birthday, John Davis calls me again with another tale- another dream with Lefty in it. I promised I would recount it now. This second dream is different."

Here is the dream:

In real life, John Davis has been suffering with a real bad case of arthritis in his joints, particularly the hands, for a long time. It hit him too early in life, it's genetic and very, very painful. It's so bad that he had to give up hitting flies to his team, or hitting infield.

So in this dream, John goes to a ball game and Lefty is on the mound- John describes him to a tee. Lefty had a way of holding the ball that made it seem to disappear. It's not that his hands were abnormally large, just kind of large. It was the way he held it. John nailed it, and Lefty's power-cat step and delivery, in his description of the dream.

He sits on the bench and Lefty calls from the mound, "Hey, aren't you going to hit? Get in there." John says, "Can't. My hands are too busted up and sore." Lefty says, "Don't worry about that. You just stand in there and hit--I'll take care of your hands." So John hits this time--hits batting practice with Lefty pitching--great dream.

Next day, back in waking real life, the team prevails on John to stand in against their fastest pitcher to see if the Old Coach can hit. Normally John wouldn't try it, because he would pay so dearly afterwards, but this time, the dream fresh in his mind, he steps in and hits a half a dozen in a row,over the fence, and the team is ecstatic and inspired.

He takes some Advil and waits for his punishment the next morning- no pain- no symptoms. He goes to his arthritis doc, who has treated him for years, the doc does a thorough exam, can't believe it but tells John: "Go home. You don't have arthritis anymore. It disappeared. I've never seen this in my practice of medicine. You are healed."

John tells me that he is sure Lefty intervened with God for him- that's why I think we must be related. Lefty is watching out for John. Ergo, John is a Sully, somehow.

And all this happened on two consecutive birthdays of Dr. John Ullmen, who looks like a Sully, right from Clare and Limerick. I guess Shakespeare was right: "There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy." (Hamlet, Act 1, Scene 5). John called me again three years ago, and each time, we discuss dreams."

So happy birthday, John Larkin Davis, and may you have 57 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty & Jim

God Bless Boompa

Dear Hearts,

July 12th is the 28th anniversary of the death of Irwin Vincent Wiley: son of Alfred (Snaz) and Wanda Wilkoshesky; brother of Norbert, Alfred, Carl, Eugene, Steward and Blanche; husband of Frances Sheehan Wiley (Boom Boom); father of Mary Claire, Helen and (not biologically but in heart) Pat Leonard; grandfather of 14; cousin, uncle, nephew and friend to scores more. We called him Boompa.

He was born June 25, 1904, in Chicago, and died on this day in 1994 in California. He was a pure-blooded Polish-American who graduated from Tilden Tech at age 14, then from Crane Tech at 16 and became a professional engineer in his teens, a title he held for almost 50 years.

As a Civil Engineer, Boompa worked his entire career with the Chicago, Milwaukee, St. Paul & Pacific Railroad, also known as the Milwaukee Road. He started in 1922 as a rodman and worked up to assistant engineer at his retirement in 1969. Known as the Chief of Ways, Boompa worked from Chicago to Montana with surveyor's tools like slide rules, and wrote with beautiful penmanship in small notebooks. Check out pages 6 and 17 in this copy of the Milwaukee Road Magazine.

When he was 14, he came downstairs in the morning, his mother gave him his lunch pail and kissed him goodbye. He went off to school, and never saw her again. It was 1918, and the Spanish flu epidemic was sweeping Chicago, and everywhere else. She died that morning and was carted away to the city morgue and buried before any of the kids could see her again.

We are all sure that the Wileys/Wilkosheskys are back together again in heaven, thanks be to God. Thanks for watching over us, Boompa.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Alan!

Dear Hearts,

July 10th is the birthday of Alan Paul Stachura: son of Edward and Phyllis; partner of Jim Royall; uncle, cousin and friend to many, many more. Back in the day, we all called him Stach, and today we call him Alan.

Alan became an honorary member of our family back in the 1960s when he became my Godfather. He was a young man and clearly grabbed my mom and dad's hearts with his goodness. As long as we were in touch, Alan faithfully celebrated my birthday, one year delivering a giant hand-made card of poster board and colorful art. That memory is strong in my mind--the sheer joy of receiving such a fun and exciting gift!

Since reconnecting with Alan a few years ago, I have been so charmed with his positive outlook and constant kindness. Indeed, he is always on the sunny side of life! Today, Alan and Jim live in beautiful Oak Harbor, Washington and are fully enjoying retirement after careers in real estate finance. 

Happy Birthday, Alan, and may you have 50 more healthy ones, by Joannie Sullivan's Law of Longevity Anticipation of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Larry!

Dear Hearts,

July 9th is the birthday of Lawrence Kermit White Jr.: son of Col. Lawrence Kermit (Red) and Elizabeth Jane (Susan) White; brother of Susan and James; husband of Signe; father of Lawrence III, Abigail and Dagne; grandfather to Matthew and Nathaniel. I met him in the late 1960s and have known him to be our family friend, Whitey, my whole life.

He's a wonderful and loyal friend who will find a way to support or help you whenever possible. While Larry recently offered an update on his life as, "just an old fart who is happily retired," his professional resume is as impressive as they come. Whitey has given much to our country with inspiring, constant and humble strength.

Today, he is a loving husband, proud father and grandfather, ham radio operator, kayaker and traveler enjoying life in Georgia. He, Jim, John, Mike and Gary have taken many trips together to explore the Finger Lakes and visit Civil War battlegrounds. He could give the Dos Equis man a run for the title "Most Interesting Man in the World!"

Happy Birthday, Whitey, and may you have 49 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Seamus!

Dear Hearts,

July 8th is the birthday of Seamus Benedict Sullivan: son of Jim (Seamus the Younger) and Erin; grandson of Bob and Darlene and Tom and Cindy; brother of John, Annie, Kathleen, Thomas, Peter, Maggie, Joe, Bridget and Patrick; nephew, cousin and friend to many more.

Seamus Benedict stands in a long line of men who carry this name in our family, the Irish/Gaelic version of James. We have eight relatives with the name today, at least three who have gone to their graves, and a few others who bear James/Seamus as their middle names!

He's a terrific brother and loves his siblings. But he also has plenty of friends, including his little buddy, Lily, with whom he received his First Holy Communion two years ago.

Happy Birthday, little Sully. May you have 114 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Stephanie!

Dear Hearts,
Keep taking those selfies, Steph, it's the only
way we see pics of you!


July 8th is the birthday of Stephanie Falconer Sullivan: daughter of Robert and Jill Falconer; wife of Paul; mother of Hannah, Jack, Emma, Liam, Callum and Ewan; sister, cousin, aunt, niece and friend to many more lucky folks. Stephanie hails from Thurso, Highland, the most northerly town on the British mainland and a beautiful place.

Stephanie is a loving, faithful, hard-working, creative and hilarious woman who is wise beyond her years. Her talents are diverse, from experienced horsewoman, to terrific photographer, gifted writer and expert sports fan.

Luna is her new horse companion and Stephanie loves working with this rescue Arabian horse who she adopted from California. Life is busy with kids going to and from college, studying abroad, traveling around for sports, etc., but Stephanie was particularly happy when the whole family was able to sneak away for an idyllic vacation to Havasupi. Four days of backpacking, hiking, swimming, and just being together with no technology was perfect. In Stephanie's words, "We ate at the Indian frybread stand, have sore muscles as badges of honor tonight and lots of wonderful memories.

Happy Birthday, Stephanie, and may you have 78 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty



God Bless Lefty

Dear Hearts,

July 7th is the 65th anniversary of the death of John Jeremiah "Lefty" Sullivan, our patriarch. He was the first of the Ui Suilleabhain Beare of Limerick to be born in America, and all the boys named Sullivan have his Y-chromosome. I never had the chance to meet Lefty, but Jim offers his memories and research very eloquently:

He was about 5' 10 1/2" tall, about 180 lb., and his shoulders were so wide that he just barely got through the door. Even when he was in his last year, he was graceful as a cat. We used to go for walks around the block and talk baseball and they are among my most treasured memories. He pitched to us, he gave me my first catcher's mitt. He used to come to my Little League games and teach hitting--he was a great hitter for a pitcher. When we were babies, he played a baseball game with us on the living room floor, "Roll the Ball."

He didn't want any of us to be left-handed, (even though five out of Big Sully's nine kids are lefties!) and he said the world was right-handed and that you had to be a ballet dancer as a left-hander to achieve any grace--but he did.

He forced himself to write with his right hand, and developed beautiful, flowing, neat penmanship that would have made the nuns proud. He was always as neat and well-groomed, as well turned-out as he could be. Shiny shoes, clean fingernails, clean shaven and hair combed. Shirt and tie, with a Baseball Anonymous tie-pin. He spoke very gently. He always called us little ones "sky-gacks," a Gaelic word of obscure origin, meaning little birdies or goosies, I think.

He was the youngest of six, second brother, son of Jeremiah Barry O’Sullivan from Limerick, and Anna Meany from Clare. He had a full scholarship to play football at Notre Dame--he was a split end, today's wide receiver--but he turned it down to sign with the White Sox in about 1911. His father, Jeremiah, never forgave him. Jeremiah always said that education and college degrees were the true measure of success. He didn't care that Lefty was born to throw a baseball. He went to the farm teams for some years until WWI broke out.

He joined the Army and shipped out for France, arriving there on November 10, 1918. He was the first generation of us born here, after his outlaw father "wet-backed" in over the Canadian border (his father was fleeing the British and the Mounties after having killed an English rent collector) and the first of us to go into the American Army. After him, three generations of his descendants have served in that same Army. He was in a cavalry unit, and shortly after he reported to the front line, the Armistice was signed. He claimed forever after to have shown up, the Germans got scared and quit. With a straight face. He used to say he gave them a choice. Then he'd hold up his right fist and say, "Six months in the hospital." Then he'd hold up his left fist and say, "Or sudden death."

Back home, his rookie year in the big leagues was 1919, the year of the Black Sox scandal. He was a rookie on that team and appeared four times. After that, the Sox were busted up and Lefty pitched semi-pro ball for 25 more years, sold insurance in Chicago, hustled pool in the summers to feed the family and ran for alderman. And lost. Everybody in Chicago knew him, and when I was growing up people would ask me if I was related to John "Lefty" Sullivan. I'd say yes and they'd say he was the greatest pitcher they ever watched.

The great Warren Spahn of the Milwaukee Braves said on channel 9 the day Lefty (we called him Boompa), "Lefty Sullivan was the best natural pitcher I ever saw. Better than me."

He had the narrow coronary arteries, "Sullivan Heart," and when he bent over to field a slow grounder or a bunt, his vision blurred, oxygen didn't get there enough. The pros took advantage of this, of course. But that was the first clue. He had six heart attacks, dying in bed from the last one at age 65. Big Sully and Uncle Bob had one, and Blackie and I did. All the Sullivan men really must get the tubes checked out. (And I am hereby begging each of you, once again, as part of a never-ending request, to do just that. I am certain Lefty would agree.)

He wouldn't drink a drop--his whole life. His mother's brother, Pat Meany, lived with them when Lefty was little. Pat worked on the railroad, of course, and was a terrible Irish whiskey--drunk. The Irish named whiskey. In Gaelic it is called "ishca baha," meaning "water of life." There is a clue in that. Pat got plastered, fell off the tender, got his lower spine crushed and was paralyzed, immobile and incontinent for the rest of his life. Lefty's mother, Anna Meany Sullivan, would take little John by the hand and show him his uncle, before she cleaned up the mess. She'd say that this was the result of "the Craytcher." Drinking was called "the Creature" by the Irish women. The lesson took and he was a non-drinker. In his last three months, the doctor told him to have two shots of whiskey each night, for his circulation because of the bad arteries. After a few nights, he told his wife to get rid of it because, "I like this stuff far too much."

He took a beating from his father, Jeremiah, in front of his oldest son, Big Sully, because he had given an intentional walk in a ball game. The old man thought he knew what he was doing, accused Lefty of cowardice, and beat him with his shillelagh! True story! My dad, Big Sully, asked why he took it, and his dad, Lefty, said,"He just doesn't understand." My father never got over that.

Grandma, Booma, Mom, Anna Conick Sullivan used to call him Sully. I thought that was the coolest thing I ever heard. She was stern with him, and called him Lefty sometimes, and when angry, John. Boy, did he ever love her--to distraction. And he was her hero.

I used to think that the picture on the dime was Lefty. The profile of Roosevelt looked like him. So I used to tell everybody that my grandpa was on the dime. Got some funny looks.

When Lefty and Anna's son John died at age 1 month, (one of four who died as infants from lack of lung development) Booma/Mom pulled Lefty to his knees next to the cradle as the baby breathed his tortured last few breaths from his poor little undeveloped lungs, held Lefty's hand, and they offered the baby back to God. Lefty said if it weren't for Anna Conick Sullivan, right then, he would have died.

His faith was like that his whole life. There is a story about him going to confession. It was after John XXIII let us drink water before communion, after midnight. This was before the fast was lifted. So one early Sunday morning, 4:00 or 5:00 a.m., Lefty gets up and drinks a quart of ice water that he always kept in the fridge. Then he goes to communion that morning. Next Saturday, he confesses it, and the priest in the confessional says, "John, it's now all right to drink water before communion." and Lefty says to him, in the confessional, "Yes, but I didn't have to be such a God Damned Pig about it." The priest laughed out loud and got Lefty's permission to tell us that story.

I loved him very much, and when he died I was shaken down to the ground. At the Irish funeral home on the South Side, Duffy's, I went up to kiss him goodbye in the coffin, in the Irish tradition, and realized that he was gone and not getting up. I went and hid under a row of chairs with raincoats draped over them, forming a tunnel. I was 10. I cried my heart out and felt like I was going to die of grief. I had never had an inkling of death before.

After a bit, a big hand comes in there and pulls me out and holds me in his arms--Uncle Bob. He explained everything to me, and how Lefty lives and always will, and how we all love each other, so none of us can actually ever die. Love never, never dies, he told me. I have found it to be true. Uncle Bob saved me that night, and when Bob died and I was crying my eyes out in the aisle of St. Gregory's, another John Sullivan, Seamus the Younger's oldest son, my beloved cousin John Robert, 11 at the time, puts his little arms around me and comforts me, at the death of his grandpa. Full circle. The love of the family.

It seems that Lefty has adopted, in a mystical way through dreams, my old and dear friend, John Davis, who was brought back to his family's ancient Celtic Catholic faith after many generations away from it after they made it to the new world. His Irish-American wife led him back. Lefty must be, in some way, John's relative, too-- know this in my bones--John Larkin Davis must be our cousin.

Lefty was our patriarch. I love and miss him so. Timothy Aristotle Sullivan looks so much like him that it's spooky. Every time I see Tim I am reminded of my beloved grandfather.

We love you, Lefty. Please continue to watch over us. John Jeremiah Sullivan, born Chicago, 31 May 1893, died Chicago, 7 July 1958.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty and Jim

Happy Birthday, Luke!

Dear Hearts,

July 6th is the birthday of Luke Sullivan Merwin: son of Mary Fran and Gary; brother of Joe, Kate and Maggie; uncle of Elianah, Ava, Henry, Francesca and Inez; nephew, cousin and friend to scores more folks. I am amazed at how much he looks like his mom these days!

Luke has forged a new path, professionally, working for Wells Fargo as an Escalations Consultant. His 15+ years in customer service makes him a great fit for this--listening to customers and addressing their concerns. He is one of the happiest, funniest people I know--unfailingly cheerful in all weathers, and loyal as the day is long.

Everyone benefits from Luke's presence--whether he is listening and supporting, babysitting and playing, singing and playing music, or relaying hilarious stories and making us laugh.

Happy Birthday, Luke, and may you have 81 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Holden!

Dear Hearts,

July 5th is the birthday of Holden Daniel Glick: son of Daniel and Amanda; grandson of Margaret and Brian Glick, and Diana and Jerry; cousin, nephew and buddy to a whole bunch of us.

Holden's big brown eyes and beautiful blonde hair shows an amazing mix of his mama and daddy. He is a gentle and sure little boy, and is growing fast toward his third year.

He enjoys adventures with his mom and dad and is growing up to be a healthy, happy little guy.

Happy birthday, Holdy, and may you have 122 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Fiona!

Dear Hearts,

July 4th is the birthday for little Fiona Sophie Piper Galvin: daughter of Jim's Godson and nephew, and his sons' fifth brother, Frank Galvin, and his beautiful wife Annette Keppeler Galvin.

Frank, also known as Knarf, and Knarfington, has been Amos's sidekick for some 30+ years. They both have good and beautiful women, and gorgeous children.

And Frank's little girl is gorgeous.

Happy Birthday, little Fiona, and may you have 116 more healthy years, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Independence Day!

Dear Hearts,

July 4th is the 246th birthday of our beloved land. I offer some interesting info about why we celebrate the way we do on this day.

John Adams, the Boston-born Founding Father, spurred the idea to light up the skies each Independence Day. A day after the Continental Congress voted for independence on July 2, 1776—yes, July 2—Adams wrote a letter from Philadelphia to his wife back home in Boston commemorating the day. His letter to Abigail Adam, dated July 3, 1776, read in part:

"But the Day is past. The Second Day of July 1776, will be the most memorable Epocha, in the History of America..."

"I am apt to believe that it will be celebrated, by succeeding Generations, as the great anniversary Festival. It ought to be commemorated, as the Day of Deliverance by solemn Acts of Devotion to God Almighty. It ought to be solemnized with Pomp and Parade, with Shews, Games, Sports, Guns, Bells, Bonfires and Illuminations from one End of this Continent to the other from this Time forward forever more."

However you choose to celebrate, I wish you all a healthy, happy July 4th!

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Rick!

Dear Hearts,

July 3rd is the birthday of Richard James Dawson, Jr.: son of Bitsy Sullivan and Rick Dawson, stepson of Seamus the Older; brother of Maggie; father of Rachel; and loving friend of beautiful Kelly Benoit.

Rick is the apple of his Mom's eye and a successful entrepreneur who works in real estate investing and is practicing law in his home town of Munster. He has a big heart, made of gold, as good a guy as you could hope for. He takes care of a lot of people, without a sound, and always does his job.

Happy Birthday, Rick, and may you have 77 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Claire!

Dear Hearts,

July 2nd is the birthday of Claire Marie Frances Kimbel: daughter of Anne Sullivan Daly and Curt Kimbel; stepdaughter of Malachy Daly; sister of Willis; niece, cousin and friend to many, many more.

Claire is one of the six girl Sully cousins born within a year or so of each other--each of a different sibling: Jim's Franny, Mary Fran's Maggie, John's Maggie, Mike's Katie, and Margaret's Lizzy. And this group is book ended by Kate Merwin ahead of them and Georgia Sullivan bringing up the rear.

Claire has expanded her career, working as a paraeducator in Special Education, and as a manager of a residential recovery center in Colorado. She is continuing her education in a Masters program as well.

Happy Birthday, Claire, and may you have 87 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Sunday, July 2, 2023

Happy Birthday, Andy!

Dear Hearts,

July 2nd is the birthday of Andrew William Bornhop: son of Rod Sr. and Mary Louise; brother of Barbara, Gretchen, Mary, Rodney and Rosie; husband of me (the luckiest girl in the world); father of John, Andrew and Thomas; father-in-law to Misty; nephew, cousin, in-law, uncle and friend to scores more lucky folks.

Andy continues his work as a top-rate professional writer and editor for Kelley Blue Book, working remotely and driving test cars regularly. Working from home affords him time in the day to tend to his growing garden and combat a few varmints who enjoy the crops in the night. Today he harvested his inaugural crop of potatoes--pulling 28 plump spuds from the soil! He also grows tomatoes, corn, various peppers, onions and sunflowers galore.

Andy's genuine and constant curiosity draws him in to conversations with folks from all walks of life. Not only does this characteristic make for a gifted journalist, but also an excellent trivia partner! Music remains a big part of his life too--live, recorded or anyway he can get it--and his taste in tunes is incredibly diverse. Andy's  most recent concert was seeing Neil Young in L.A. just last night.

Andy's faith is an inspiration and his work ethic a terrific example to others. Combine that with his lovely humility and you can understand why I fell in love with him instantly in 1987.

Happy Birthday, Andy-roo, and may you have 65 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

I love you, Patty

Happy Birthday Bitsy!

Dear Hearts,

Bitsy and the Munster Garden Club ready
for the Annual Plant Sale!
June 30th is the birthday of Elizabeth Ann Cusick Sullivan: daughter of Budd and June; sister of Katherine, Linda, Debra and Brian; mother of Rick and Maggie; stepmother of Jim, Mick and Mary, Amos and Sara, Miles and Sarah and Franny; grandmother of Rachel, Oscar, Beatrice, Georgia, Maeve, James, Silas, Marcos, Roman and Carmen; sister-in-law, aunt, cousin and friend to many more lucky people. Everyone calls her Bitsy.

Bitsy continues to enjoy retirement and the world continues to benefit from her talents--her kindness, wisdom, work ethic, sense of humor, patience and intelligence--and her family and neighbors are continually blessed with her artistry in the garden. I've never seen such beautiful flower beds in real life!

The Munster Garden Club is lucky to have her, whether they are holding its annual plant sale, decorating a garden-themed Christmas tree or organizing its yearly Garden Walk. She is a Master Garden and is always willing to bring natural beauty to others through her gardening.

Bitsy is Jim's soulmate and his inspiration, and their life together is truly something to admire. She is one of the most peaceful and patient people I've ever met.

Happy Birthday, sweet Bitsy, and may you have 48 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday John!

Dear Hearts,

June 28th is the birthday of John Paul Sullivan: son of Mike and Joan; brother of Katie O., husband of Elizabeth; father of Charlie and Mickey; nephew, cousin and friend to scores more lucky folks.

John continues his work as a recruiter and account manager at Cincinnati-based Vaco, a company that consults and advises in a wide variety of industries. He is glad to stretch his talents into a new realm and is sure to enjoy success while doing so.

At home, he is a devoted husband and dad, enjoying new aspects of parenting as his boys grow older. John is and always has been passionate about life and navigates the world with compassion and intelligence.

Happy Birthday, John Paul, and may you have 87 more healthy ones, by your Mother's Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday Christian!

 Dear Hearts,

June 27th is the birthday of Christian Martin Whalen: son of John and Helen; brother of Teresa, Damian, Lisa and Mercy; husband of Aida; father of Nicholas, Morgan, Sean and Connor; grandfather of Isaac and Isabela; cousin, nephew and friend to many more.

Chris works as a project manager at Scariano Construction in Missoula. They are lucky to have landed Christian, who has owned his own company (Black Mountain in Missoula) for over a decade and is a talented craftsman in historic preservation, design, carpentry and more.

He's one of the older kids who carries the memories of simpler times at 704 W. 50th Street--Boom and Boompa's house on the south side of Chicago. He values family and heritage and has hung on to and shared some terrific photos from his childhood.

Happy Birthday, Christian, and may you have 54 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Matthew!

 Dear Hearts,

June 27th is the birthday of Matthew Kermit Brogdon: son of Russ and Dagne; brother of Nathaniel; grandson of Whitey and Signe; friend and classmate to many more.

Kermit is a White family name--three consecutive Lawrence Kermit Whites--so Matthew carries the name forward. This fella is full of non-stop energy and calls Whitey and Signe Oma and Opa. He looks like Whitey, who looks like his Dad, Red. The genes keep on rolling.

Happy Birthday, Matthew, and may you have 115 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Gus!

Dear Hearts,

Gus, pictured here with some Sully cousins,
ready for poker night in Phoenix.
June 26th is the birthday of Augustine Paul Sullivan: son of Mike and Shelly, brother of Jake, Seamus, Mia, Sofia, Nelly and Max; grandson of Bob and Darlene and Don and Judy; cousin, nephew and friend to a bunch more lucky folks.

Gus has completed his first year at St. Marys and was recently added to the school's varsity football roster. I'm sure he will make his mark on the field as well as in the classroom in high school.

He's a great brother and can always be counted on for some terrific laughs.

Happy birthday, Gus, and may you have 110 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty