Sunday, February 28, 2021

God Bless Honore Corbett

Dear Hearts,

March 1st is the anniversary of the birth of Honore Corbett, born in Carrigaholt, Townland of Rehy Cross, County Clare, Eire, in 1839. She was the wife of William Sheehan, who emigrated to America, didn't like it and went back! She was Boom Boom's grandmother.

She was called "Norie Fathie," meaning "Tall Nora." She and William had a brood of children, one of whom was Big John Sheehan--a raw-boned, strong kid, who left to come to America and never saw his mother, Honore, again. But, oh, did he talk about her, and her name lives in the family. Jim offers a story about him and his Kate, below.

Honore was a midwife and delivered most of the babies in the Corca Baiscinn Peninsula, from Loop Head to Kilkee, until she died in Ireland in about 1910. She was reputed to be the most beautiful woman in Clare.

Boom Boom talked about Honore Corbett a lot, and her name now echoes in the family in Katherine Honore Merwin, Mary Fran's first-born daughter.

Happy birthday, Honore Corbett Sheehan, and please watch over us. God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty


More from Jim:

At the end of John's life, the cops would bring him home each night to Boom and Boomp's, and deposit him, have a cup of tea, and go on. He would walk up to the corner of 50th and Halsted, Back of the Yards in Chicago, and wait at the bus stop for the boat, because his mother, who had been dead for thirty years or so, was coming on the next one.

He was so terribly confused, and full of sorrow and longing for the mother he never saw after he took ship, and for the rest of his tribe. But he had his Kate, and his three children, and his only daughter was Boom Boom. His dementia made him quiet and melancholy.

When my mother, Mary Claire, and my sister, Margaret, and Margaret's daughter Elizabeth had a horrible roll-over accident on Mount Baldy, there was an older, pretty woman with an Irish brogue who tapped Margaret on the shoulder, as Margy was in a bit of shock, and told her to "check on the baby." Lizzie was in the back, not breathing. Margaret roused her and she began again to breathe. Then Margaret turned back to thank the Irish woman, and she was gone. I think midwife's know how to "check the baby." In my heart of hearts, I'm thanking my great-great-grandmother for that one. 

Seamus the Older

Happy Birthday, Jim!

Dear Hearts,

February 29th is the birthday of Jim Clark: husband of Lisa; father of Cerece and Johanna; grandfather of four; son of James Sr. and Joy; brother, cousin and friend to many more. 

Professionally, Jim is an experienced salesman in the security industry. Personally, his interests are diverse and rich--sports, cooking, golf, family, travel and enjoying the relaxing hot tub and cabana he and Lisa have installed in their backyard in Seattle. Jim inherited much of his talents from his late father who taught Jim how to ride horses, compete in rodeo, work a ranch and cook, among others things.

Happy Birthday, Jim, and may you have 64 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Friday, February 26, 2021

Happy Birthday, Tim!

Dear Hearts,
It's an old photo, but I just couldn't resist...

February 28th is the birthday of Timothy Aristotle Sullivan: son of Bob and Darlene: brother of John, Jim, Bobby, Paul, Mike, Pete, and Sister John Mary, Margaret and Ella; husband of Maureen; father of Gabriella, Brynn and Andrew; uncle, cousin and friend of scores more.

Tim's work life was changed pretty drastically with the onset of Covid-19 restrictions, as he was on the road traveling throughout the southwest for Merck Pharmaceutical. And he's made good use of his time through the pandemic--renovating parts of the house, keeping up on physical fitness and keeping his kids and Maureen laughing.

Tim will try just about anything physical and usually succeed. He'll also wolf down a mountain of sweet treats when you're not looking, so hide the Skittles! I've watched him make instant friends on the beach with six-year-old children, and relate to octogenarians with terrific love and respect, no matter their lot in life. He continues to serve as a wonderful example of compassion and kindness and we are lucky to call him our own.

As Jim has said, there is something so deeply, soundly, fundamentally good about Tim, that his goodness and the innocence of his heart shine straight out, and influence everyone around him. He has had his moments, like all of us, but there is a reservoir of strength and peace in him, like his brave father, that lifts and carries the family, time and again.

Happy birthday, Tim, and may you have 78 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

God Bless John Jeremiah

Dear Hearts,

February 27, 1980 is John Jeremiah's last day. He was 11 years old when he was hit by a car in Phoenix.

On that day, Aunt Darlene and Uncle Bob gathered enough courage for the entire family, miraculously. The man who accidentally struck John never really got over it, and wept in the embrace of Bob and Darlene for many years afterward.

The siblings were struck with a wound of fierce pain. The cousins have tasted it, too. One year, Bob dreamed that his first-born son John was playing on a swing-set. Bob said, "When are you coming home?" John said, "Dad, I am home."

John, who would have been 52, is buried with Uncle Bob and Booma/Mom.

There are 13 John's in the family, 4 of them John Jeremiah's: John Jeremiah I was Lefty; John Jeremiah Jr. was Lefty's son, who only lived a few months; John Jeremiah II was Bob and Darlene's son, who lived 11 years. There is another John Jeremiah, and he starts the numbers over--he is the first, and maybe someday he will be Senior, and he is Pete's and Melody's son.

The other nine John's are John Joseph Whalen, patriarch of the Whalen; John William Sheehan, Boom Boom's father; Big Sully and Mary Claire's son, John Vincent Sullivan; Big Ange and Patty's son John Sullivan Bornhop; Pete and Melody's son, John Naime Herrington; Seamus the Younger and Erin's son, John Robert Sullivan; Mike and Joan's son, John Paul Sullivan; John Davis; and Dr. John Ullmen. We've got a full complement of Johns!

So, please look after us John Jeremiah, with Lefty and Booma/Mom, the Aunties and your Dad Uncle Bob, Big Sully, Mary Claire, Mary Fran, Boom Boom and Boompa, and The Ancestors.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Penelope!

Dear Hearts,

February 27th is the birthday of Penelope Antoinette Sullivan: the youngest daughter of Mike and Shelly; sister of Jake, Mia, Seamus, Gus, Sophia and Max; granddaughter of Bob and Darlene and Don and Judy; cousin, niece and friend to many more.

Nelly has the classic look of an eight-year-old girl who is growing into her beautiful toothy grin. She remains a happy, curious kid who goes with the flow and adds a sweetness to everyone's day. Years ago, when she climbed into my lap at the suggestion of reading a book together, my heart melted and I would've given her anything she wanted at that point. Still will, in fact.

So, happy birthday, sweet Nelly, and may you have 117 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Thursday, February 25, 2021

God Bless Antonina

Dear Hearts,

February 26th is the 184th anniversary of the birth of Antonina Grabska: wife of Josef Zinn; mother of Boompa's mom, Wanda, among other children.

She was born in 1837 in the Grand Duchy of Posen, part of ancient Poland, and she died in Chicago on February 28, 1909. Boompa, her grandson, was just 4 years old. So, Antonina was my great-great-grandmother.

Thank you, Grandma Antonina, for Boompa, and for being our Ancestor. Please watch over us all from your place near God.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Nancy!

Dear Hearts,

February 26th is the birthday of Nancy Nau Sullivan: daughter of Pat and Mike; mother of Jim, Mick, Miles, Amos and Franny; sister to Patsy, Janet, Liz, Nick, Felix and Peter; aunt, cousin and friend to dozens more.

Nancy is anxiously awaiting the release of her latest book, The Boys of Alpha Block, due out this spring. This title will join her previous works which are part of the Blanche Murninghan Mystery Series (Saving Tuna Street and Trouble Down Mexico Way), as well a memoir called The Last Cadillac. Additionally, her short stories have been published in several literary magazines.

Outside Northwest Indiana, Nancy has called a few other places home, including Anna Maria Island, FL, and Mexico--locations that seem to have offered lots of inspiration for her writing. 

Happy Birthday, Nancy. May you have 74 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

Love, Patty

Friday, February 19, 2021

Happy Birthday, Nicholas!

Dear Hearts,


February 19th is the birthday of Nicholas James Whalen: son of Christian and Moira; brother of Sean, Connor and Morgan; grandson of Helen and John; great-grandson of Boom Boom and Boompa; cousin, nephew and friend to many others.

Happy Birthday, Nicholas James, and may you have 85 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Ella!

Dear Hearts,

February 19th is the birthday of Ella Marie Sullivan: daughter of Bobby and Nicole; sister of Jeremiah, Thomas and Patrick; granddaughter of Darlene and Bob and Celia and Don; Fiance to Charley Ramsay; niece, cousin and friend to scores more. 

Ella has graduated with honors from the University of Dallas with a degree in Politics and International Studies. Today she is working as an intern for American Enterprise--a public policy think tank dedicated to defending human dignity, expanding human potential, and building a freer and safer world--in its Initiative on Faith and Public Life. In this role, she will work directly with some of America’s most renowned scholars, economists, political scientists, and foreign policy specialists conducting research on today’s prominent public policy questions.

The latest and most wonderful news in Ella's life is that she and Charley will be wed in Phoenix this June! The wedding mass will take place at St. Gregory's--the Phoenix Sullivans' second home. All ten of Bob and Darlene's children attended school at St. Greg's, as have their local grandchildren. It is the place we've all celebrated various Sullivan family members' sacraments--baptisms, Holy Eucharist, confirmations, weddings and funerals. (Was St. John Mary's ordination held here?)

She is one of our three in our family named Ella, with her Auntie Darlene Ella and her cousin, Jim's Frances Ella.

Happy Birthday, Ella, and may you have 102 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Anticipation of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Wednesday, February 17, 2021

God Bless Aunt Helen

Dear Hearts,

February 18th is the 93rd anniversary of the birth of Helen Louise Catherine Wiley Whalen: wife of John; daughter of Boom and Boompa; sister of Mary Claire; mother of Christian, Teresa, Damian, Lisa and Mercy; aunt to nine of us; grandmother of eight; and friend to so many.

Helen and Mary Claire grew up Back of the Yards on the Southside of Chicago in the house their grandfather built at 704 W. Halsted. I picture these girls living a childhood not too different from the characters in "Our Gang." Helen and Mary Claire took up Irish Dancing and would dance on the radio as kids!

She valued education greatly and, as an adult, embarked on a journey on which she attended Edgewood College in Madison, WI, and earned an Associates of Arts degree. She then received a Bachelor’s of Arts degree from Loyola University in 1949 and continued on to graduate school at Loyola. At this time she also studied music at Rosary College and The American Conservatory of Music in Chicago.

Helen met John at Loyola University in fall, 1948 and the two were married in June of 1950. They lived in Chicago until 1957 before heading to Kotzebue, Alaska; Stevensville, Montana; Red Lodge, Montana; and settled in Missoula where they lived happily ever after.

Helen was a creative woman in so many areas--cooking, sewing, painting, drawing, etc.. And when challenged later in life with cancer, she was a courageous fighter in the face of threatening illnesses. Today she rests alongside Uncle John at St. Mary's cemetery in Missoula.

Watch over us, Aunt Helen, and enjoy eternal life with your beloved and family. God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty


Happy Birthday, Ruth!

Dear Hearts,
Ruth, the taller sister, showing her 
joyful spirit through her smile!


February 18th is the birthday of Ruth Teofila Herrington: daughter of Phillip and Ella; sister of Darlene, Joseph, John, James, Anna, Agnes and Rose; niece, cousin and friend to scores of folks.

Ruth means "compassion" in Hebrew, and Teofila is the Spanish name for "friend of God,", after her Auntie Mary, Sister John Mary Sullivan, O. S. F. Our Ruth is a happy and kind young lady and a wonderful sister.

Happy Birthday, sweetheart. May you have 114 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

Love, Patty

Monday, February 15, 2021

Happy Birthday, Paul!

Dear Hearts,

February 16th is the birthday of Paul Alejandro Sullivan: son of Bob and Darlene; husband of Stephanie; brother of John, Jim, Bobby, Tim, Mike, Mary, Margaret, Ella and Peter; father of Hannah, Jack, Emma, Liam, Callum and Ewan; cousin, nephew, uncle and friend to scores of others. He has been called Pablo Diablo in the past.

Professionally, Paul is an impressive force with the training and skills of a lawyer, a salesman, a manager and a corporate director. Today he works as the Director of Strategic Partnerships for Kite Pharma, a company whose mission is to cure cancer. They are lucky to have them on their team.

More importantly, Paul is a wonderful family man. He and his beloved Stephanie are raising strong, intelligent, faithful, hilarious kids in much the same way that Uncle Bob and Aunt Darlene raised theirs. It's clear that God is first and family is the next most important thing in his life.

His ability to live life in shorts and sandals is quite impressive.

And Paul's never-ending desire for adventure has created some amazing memories. He has hiked to the top of Mt. Rainier, and down to the bottom of the Grand Canyon. His fishing and hunting has fed many mouths and taught so many others how to do the same. He'll jump into any situation, figure it out and make it better/funner/easier.

So, Happy Birthday, Paul, and may you have 77 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Sunday, February 14, 2021

Happy Birthday, Evangeline!

Dear Hearts,

February 15th is the birthday of Evangeline Smoot Sullivan: daughter of Lindsay and Mike; sister of Violet; granddaughter of John and Nancy; niece of Maggie and Matt; cousin of Brandon; grand niece and little buddy to a bunch more!

According to her Heepa (her grandfather, John), Evan is as sweet as honey, as pure as gold and in love with her Nana (Nancy). This second grader is also talented in so many ways--creating beautiful art, stirring up tasty recipes, solving puzzles and more. She's recently built a DIY Mini House (pictured here)!

Happy birthday, sweet Evangeline, and may you have 117 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty


Saturday, February 13, 2021

Happy Valentine's Day!

Dear Hearts,

February 14th is the feast day of St. Valentine: patron saint of love, young people and happy marriages. He died in the year 269. Enjoy his story below, from the website catholic.org.

"Saint Valentine, officially known as Saint Valentine of Rome, is a third-century Roman saint widely celebrated on February 14 and commonly associated with "courtly love."

Although not much of St. Valentine's life is reliably known, and whether or not the stories involve two different saints by the same name is also not officially decided, it is highly agreed that St. Valentine was martyred and then buried on the Via Flaminia to the north of Rome.

In 1969, the Roman Catholic Church removed St. Valentine from the General Roman Calendar, because so little is known about him. However, the church still recognizes him as a saint, listing him in the February 14 spot of Roman Martyrolgy.

The legends attributed to the mysterious saint are as inconsistent as the actual identification of the man.

One common story about St. Valentine is that in one point of his life, as the former Bishop of Terni, Narnia and Amelia, he was on house arrest with Judge Asterius. While discussing religion and faith with the Judge, Valentine pledged the validity of Jesus. The judge immediately put Valentine and his faith to the test."

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Andrew!

Dear Hearts,
While this photo is several years
old and Andrew is several inches
and pounds bigger, it does show
his courage and bravery. (And
his cousin, Hannah, too!)


February 13th is the birthday of Andrew William Sullivan: son of Tim and Maureen; brother of Brynn; cousin of dozens; nephew, friend and teammate to many more!

Andrew is growing into a fine, intelligent young man who is cruising through his school lessons at Huntington Beach High School. He has the natural gift of athleticism paired with a very humble heart. 

Jim recalls fondly of the time he asked Andrew how he (Andrew) was going to be able to do something he aspired to, that sounded nearly impossible. Andrew said, "I'll ask God." His faith is strong, indeed.


Happy Birthday, Andrew, and may you have 110 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Anticipation of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Billy!

Dear Hearts,

Billy hiking with family and friends
February 13th is the birthday of William Harold Lewis: son of Paul and Margaret; brother of Mary Ella, PJ Jr., Bobby and Timmy; nephew, cousin, teammate and friend to a whole bunch more.

Billy has the athletic prowess of both his mom and dad and looks just like them both! How can that be? I spent a few hours on the beach with him a few summers ago and saw a mischievous grin and clever glint in his eyes that told me he is smart as a whip and can hold his own amongst the Phoenix Sullys. At the same time, his kindness and humor shone just as bright.

Happy Birthday, William Harold, and may you have 113 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Willis!

Dear Hearts,

February 13th is the birthday of Willis Sullivan Patrick Kimbel: son of Anne Sullivan Daly and Curt Kimbel; stepson of Malachy Daly; brother of Claire; nephew, cousin and friends to many, many more.

Willis is a superb natural athlete with impressive skills in so many sports--soccer, boxing, surfing, etc. Since 2015, he has been skateboarding professionally with several major companies sponsoring him. Check out his IMDB profile and you'll find Willis has been part of a few TV shows (King of the Road & Flying Wild Alaska), as well as a documentary short film (Permission) about skateboarding. He's become a bit of an ambassador of that sport and even has a line of skateboards and accessories named after him. Check it out on Amazon!

He is living in Portland and has been able to maintain a sense of adventure despite the restrictions put in place with Covid-19.  He loves his dog, Piper, a beautiful and smart Border Collie, as well as scallops and lobster.

Happy birthday, Willis, and may you have 92 more healthy ones by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Thursday, February 11, 2021

God Bless Susan

Dear Hearts,

February 12th is the 107th anniversary of the birth of Elizabeth Jane Flint White:, mother of Whitey; wife of Colonel Red: daughter of Justin and Sophia Flint. According to Whitey, somewhere along the line she acquired the nickname Susan--so altered her name unofficially--to Elizabeth Jane (Susan) Flint.

From Whitey:

Mom and my sister were evacuated from the Philippines in late 1940. Dad just made it out ahead of war on 5 Sep 1941 only to return to the Pacific a year later in Sep 1942. He fought there with the 129th and 148th Infantry Regiments in Fiji, New Georgia, Vella LaVella, Bougainville and the Philippines until wounded at Irisan near Baguio on 17 April 1945. Dad returned to the States through a series of hospitals and was not well enough to retire until Mar 1947 from Walter Reed Hospital in DC having joined the CIA the previous year.

So Mom had a pretty exciting start to married life moving to Texas, then the Philippines, before returning home without her husband of just three years with a one-year-old daughter to wait for Dad's return first from the Philippines, and then from 3 years of war, followed by two years of recuperation from injuries serious enough to warrant 100% disability.

I arrived in 1947 and my brother followed in 1949, much to the chagrin of our older and very spoiled big sister. But Mom ran a great family and we all loved her a great deal. Our four kids called her Oma Sue; my sister's kids called her Sweetie - which stuck. Mom died 3 April 1999 from congestive heart failure after a bout with dementia in Vero Beach, FL surrounded by her kids and grandkids. She was buried at West Point where Dad joined her 7 years later. Together they rest in peace under the gravestone Jim helped design.

Dad's Memoirs are dedicated to his wife of 61+ years. The inscription reads, "I'd like to dedicate this book to my wife, Sue. Much of what I talk about would never have been possible without her love and support. She died peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, 3 April 1999. I know she has gone straight to heaven."

Thanks for including her in those you honor as family and in our prayers.

Whitey

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Wednesday, February 10, 2021

God Bless Aunt Anna Rita

Dear Hearts,

February 11th is the 98th anniversary of the birth of Anna Rita Sullivan, Order of Preachers: daughter of Lefty and Anna; sister to Jim, Bob and Margaret; Aunt to 19 of us and our spouses; friend to so many. Aunt Anna Rita was a Dominican nun, servant of the poor, epitome of motherhood to literally thousands of little ones, encourager of immigrants, forgiver of fools, one who loved, always and everywhere.

She was born in Chicago and died in Phoenix on August 18, 2006, in the 62nd year of her Religious Profession, surrounded by much of her family. She is buried in the Adrian Dominican Sisters Cemetery alongside Aunt Margaret.

I have such fond memories of the Aunties coming to visit us in Munster. They would drive up in their yellow Plymouth Dart and come up the front walkway with their habits flowing in the breeze. It amazed me how they confounded my dad, Big Sully, by serving refugees in El Salvador who were trying to re-establish life in a new and strange place in the early 1980s. They lived and worked in danger and it drove dad crazy not to be able to protect them.

Aunt Anna Rita, along with Aunt Margaret, served the Catholic community in Danville, Arkansas, working for ten years to build St. Andrew Catholic Church there. She educated me in nutrition when I had gestational diabetes in the 1990s, and counseled me through genetic testing when I was diagnosed with breast cancer the first time in 2004. She was so smart and so caring.

You all know the story of her "meeting the train" when Big Sully came home to Union Station in Chicago, after the fourth telegram saying he would arrive. The first three, over a three year period, all stated that he had been shot down (which he had) and that he was believed to be dead. So no one believed the fourth one.

Except Anna Rita. She met the train. And the 200 pound athlete, now seriously wounded, weighing 130 pounds, jammed down real hard with what we now know was post-traumatic stress, got off the train, hollow-eyed, alone. And there was his sister, willing to have her heart broken again on the chance that he would be there. He (and she) never forgot that, and held it like the precious bond it is, between them forever more.

Happy Birthday in heaven, Auntie. Thanks for your goodness, your example, your kindness and tolerance, and advice, and your endless love.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Saturday, February 6, 2021

Happy Birthday, Hannah!

Dear Hearts,

February 7th is the birthday of Hannah Grace Sullivan: daughter of Paul and Stephanie; sister of Jack, Emma, Liam, Callum and Ewan; cousin, niece, friend and teammate to a ton of others.

Hannah is studying at the University of Dallas (with a few cousins) and plans to major in English, like her dad. She has a big and adventurous spirit and is happiest when she is camping or hiking in the great outdoors. When travel is possible again, Hannah hopes to study in Rome through UD and travel around Europe.

Happy Birthday, Hannah, and may you have 106 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Anticipation of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm

Love, Patty

Thursday, February 4, 2021

Happy Birthday, Ewan!

Dear Hearts,

February 5th is the birthday of Ewan Paul Sullivan: son of Stephanie and Paul; brother of Hannah, Jack, Emma, Liam and Callum; nephew, cousin and friend to scores of others.

When he is not playing on his basketball team, Ewan is learning piano and is preparing for his first recital after more than seven months of lessons and practice. He has also taken up archery and is learning how to shoot a bow in order to go hunting with his dad when he is older.

Ewan is kind and sweet and loves riding his bike around the neighborhood with his cousins and friends.

Happy Birthday, Ewan. and may you have 116 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Happy Birthday, Rose!

Dear Hearts,

Rose, in her daddy's arms and
surrounded by family.
February 5th is the birthday of Rose Marie Herrington: daughter of Ella & Phillip; sister of Darlene, Joseph, John, Ruth, James, Anna and Agnes; cousin and niece of a whole bunch of us.

In her first year of life she has visited the red-rock beauty of Sedona, Arizona; been entertained, cuddled and cared for by her seven siblings; watched six of those siblings go off to school in the fall; and spent the majority of her life in some sort of quarantine situation. Through it all, Rose has remained as cute as a button and sweet as can be.

So, happy birthday, little Rosie, and may you have 124 more healthy ones, by the Aunt Joannie Sullivan Law of Longevity Aspiration of 2008.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty

Tuesday, February 2, 2021

God Bless Alfred

Dear Hearts,

February 3rd is the 155th anniversary of the birth of Alfred Wlodzimierz Wilkoszewski: son of Romualda and Edward; husband of Wanda; father of Norbert, Alfred Jr., Carl, Eugene, Irwin, Stewart and Blanche. He was called Snaz and lived his whole life in Chicago and was probably the man responsible for changing the family's surname to Wiley. You can see the details on the family record here.

Jim actually knew him and offers these sweet memories:


"It was my job to wake him up with a little bell and walk with him to the dinner table. He would hold my hand and talk a sort of fake language to me, and his white hair stuck straight up in a point like the roof of a cottage.

His wife, Wanda Zinn was the daughter of Josef Zinn and Antonina Grabska. She died in the flu epidemic of 1918. Boompa kissed her goodbye that morning, went to school and when he came home, she was dead and quickly buried in the epidemic graves in the Polish Catholic cemetery on the North Side. He never saw her again, but just before he left us, he sat straight up, opened his arms and said, "Mama, Mama." Then lay down, sighed and slipped peacefully into his mother's arms and the arms of God.

When Wanda died in 1918, Al was left to raise 7 kids. He was multi-talented, played the piano like a maniac, was a bank clerk and a prodigious drinker, and loved to brawl. His 6 sons and 1 daughter all turned out wonderfully, though. He invented a fart machine that he would sit on and embarrass Mary Claire and Helen when their boyfriends came calling. I saw one--it was ingenious, but he never got it patented. Worked excellently. True story."

Please watch over us, beloved ancestors. God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty & Jim

Monday, February 1, 2021

God Bless Romualda

Dear Hearts,

February 2nd is the 189th anniversary of the birth of Romualda Gorczynska Wilkoszewska, Boompa's grandmother, who was born in Konin, Poland.

She was the daughter of Major Anthony Gorczynski, a Polish officer in Napoleon's army. She and her husband, Edward Zygmunt Wilkoszewski, had many children, some records say 22! Romualda died in Chicago on July 8, 1898 and is buried at the Polish Cemetery at Norwood Park there.

(On a personal note: I would love to see one of our younger generation bring back the name Zygmunt!)

God bless you, Romualda. We pray you are enjoying blissful eternity with our ancestors.

God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Patty


God Bless Jeremiah

Dear Hearts,

February 2nd is the 170th birthday of our ancient patriarch, Jeremiah Patrick O'Sullivan. He is one of our ancestors who made the trip across the Atlantic from Ireland.

To follow is Jim's beautiful story:

Jeremiah was born during a famine year in 1851, the youngest son of ten, to Timothy and Mary Barry.

In Ireland, people were dropping dead in the fields and the English were evicting them and picking them off. Some British soldiers abused a member of the family. Jeremiah snuck up on the English rent collector and killed him with a hardened cabbage stalk. He then fled to Cobh, down outside of Cork city and then took ship to Nova Scotia, on the run. He went inland for a few years, chased by the authorities, eventually came across at Sault Ste Marie on a raft- an illegal entrant- to the Upper Peninsula and down to Chicago, met Anna Meany from Clare and had six children, four daughters, Margaret, Eileen, Mary and Anna, and two sons, James Patrick and John Jeremiah.

Jeremiah was about 5' 9" tall and broad as a barn, though thin in his youth, stocky later. He lost his leg several years before he died in 1930. He had it buried with military honors, honestly, as a member of the old version Old IRA, the Fenians, in the Irish cemetery on the South Side, Mt. Olivet. The plot document reads, "Section 1, Jeremiah P. Sullivan; section 2, 'leg of.' "

If you ever wanted to make Mary Fran scream laughing, you just had to sidle up to her and say, "Leg Of."

Our cousin, Father Jim McKittrick, sent me some documents that had Jeremiah's name as Jeremiah B. O'Sullivan, but the "O" had never been substantiated as far as I can tell, until two summers when I found Timothy’s grave in Mahoonagh parish, Limerick, and saw that it was “O’Sullivan.”.

Jeremiah got us here, and he lived 79 years and did it pretty hard. Here's to Jeremiah Barry O’Sullivan, born in Mahoonagh parish, townland of Cooley Gorman, County Limerick, Eire, on 2 February, 1851, and died in Chicago of complications due to the amputation of his second leg on 6 November, 1930.

They say he was wild when he drank, that he was mean and rough. But he got us here, and he stuck up for his family. And he's my great-grandfather.

Rest in Peace, Jeremiah. Thank you for bringing us to America. God bless us and save us and keep us from harm.

Love, Jim & Patty